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Harmony at Home

Harmony at Home

Reducing Parental Conflict in partnership with organisations from our multi-agency reference group.

 

"Harmony at Home" is 香港六合彩资料图库's way of addressing the issue of parents arguing and the impact it has on their children. This effort is part of a broader initiative called the Reducing Parental Conflict (RPC) project, which is in partnership with the Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) and organisations from out multi-agency reference group.

Harmony at Home understands all relationships have challenges, difficulties and breakdown, especially with the pressures of being a parent.

These pages have been designed specifically to give advice, tips and information to families, parents and carers who may be together, separating, divorced or co-parenting. 

Dealing with family arguments

Disagreements are a normal part of any relationship, whether you're together or separated. However, it's important to pay attention to why and how often these conflicts happen, how we argue, and how we resolve or handle them.

What can cause parental conflict?

  • parenting styles
  • household chores or responsibilities
  • financial pressures
  • moving to a new house
  • having a baby
  • health conditions
  • substance or alcohol misuse
  • lifestyle
  • extended family
  • hobbies and work commitments

Conflict is a normal part of family life, but it can harm parents and children if not handled well. 

Children exposed to frequent and intense parental conflict may face several risks:

  • social problems: they might have trouble with friends and teachers, which can affect their school performance
  • substance abuse: they are more likely to start using drugs or alcohol earlier
  • relationship issues: they may struggle with relationships as adults
  • job challenges: they could have difficulty finding and keeping jobs, leading to financial problems
  • mental health: they have a higher risk of mental health issues, both as children and later in life
  • developmental issues: conflict can affect their brain development and emotional growth, leading to behavioural problems and risk-taking
  • health problems: they might experience health issues like sleep troubles, stomach aches, fatigue, headaches, and slower physical growth

Tips to resolve and manage conflict:

  • pay attention to your feelings and behaviour
  • focus on solving the problem, not just trying to win
  • make sure you understand exactly what the disagreement is about
  • find a common goal, be willing to adjust, and make compromises that benefit both parents and the child or children
  • listen to each other鈥檚 perspective

Co-parenting advice

Co-parenting is when two parents share the responsibility of raising their children and both stay involved in their daily lives.

After a breakup or divorce, co-parenting can be challenging. However, there are resources available to help. These can show you how to make co-parenting work, highlight the benefits for your children, and help improve your relationship with the other parent.

Tips for co-parents:

  • work together as a team and accept that disagreements will happen
  • clearly outline and manage what you expect from each other
  • make a schedule or plan for parenting to provide stability, but be flexible if work or other commitments come up
  • don鈥檛 speak badly about the other parent in front of your child
  • keep consistent rules and routines in both households
  • always prioritize your child鈥檚 needs
  • put aside any anger, hurt, or frustration

What is family mediation?

Family mediation is when a neutral, trained mediator helps you and your ex-partner make decisions about your children and finances after you separate. 

The National Family Mediation Service offers a Separated Parents Information Programme, offering advice and guidance on the challenges of co-parenting.

The programme broadly focuses on following three areas:

  • the legal, financial and emotional process you will be experiencing
  • understanding more about how your children may be responding to your separation or divorce
  • improving communication with your ex-partner to help you with your future parenting

Find out more here:


Support and resources

For more information and support please visit:

Harmony at Home for professionals

This information has been co-produced with our partnership organisations specifically for practitioners working with parents in conflict.

Targeted specialist support for families whose parental relationship is in conflict

The Council have commissioned with the DWP Reducing Parental Conflict grant funding a targeted specialist service to work with parents whose parental relationship is in conflict (whether parenting together or apart). 

This is a 4 to 6 week programme for BOTH parents whose relationship remains in conflict AND who wish for more specialist intervention.

Before referring a family please ensure you have read the criteria below, discussed it with both parents, and are clear this relationship is not domestic abuse:

  • both parents must agree to the referral
  • the family must reside in 香港六合彩资料图库
  • the child(ren) of the parents must be under the age 18 or 25 if have SEND
  • the relationship must have been identified as currently in conflict and not domestic abuse with no domestic abuse within the last 12 months
  • the referrer must be able to continue to support the family whilst the specialist intervention takes place through learning shared by the specialist service to the referrer through professional case discussions
  • the referrer should support the family to engage meaningfully with the specialist intervention

Submit a referral

This service has limited capacity therefore each referral will go through a panel process based on the criteria above. You will be informed if your referral has been accepted or returned with advice, within a month with relevant refers contacted by the specialist service if accepted.

Materials to use with parents and families

Download your Harmony at Home tools (please use the Harmony at Home Planning Tool and Strengths based Questions as a framework for your work with families):

Important contacts

In an emergency always dial 999

If you or a friend are suffering from domestic abuse please see links below for help that is available:

SafeLives ending domestic abuse

Safe Lives have all the domestic abuse resources in a one stop link:

Freephone 24-hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247 

West Mercia Women鈥檚 Aid

Visit:  

Call the helpline 24-hours a day on: 0800 980 3331 

Men鈥檚 Advice Line

Call: 0808 801 0327 (Monday to Friday 9:00am to 5:00pm)

For more information and further domestic abuse related information and services please visit the 香港六合彩资料图库 County Council Domestic abuse page.

Useful links

Submit a referral

The Council have commissioned with the DWP Reducing Parental Conflict grant funding a targeted specialist service to work with parents whose parental relationship is in conflict (whether parenting together or apart). This is a 4 to 6 week programme for BOTH parents whose relationship remains in conflict AND who wish for more specialist intervention.

Before referring a family, please ensure you have read the criteria under 鈥楬armony at Home for professionals.

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